Things You Can Do For Him On Valentine’s Day That Cost Very LittleMost men aren’t into Valentine’s Day and if they were, many would be too insecure to admit it. The day is usually reserved for women (hence the plethora of advertisements enticing men to buy the ‘perfect’ gift for their special lady). While your man may not say he wants to feel loved on Valentine’s Day, I’m sure he isn’t opposed to it. What man doesn’t want the lady that he loves to…well, show him some love?
Maybe giving him flowers, jewelry, or fuzzy items shaped like hearts isn’t the best approach, but you can still do something special for your guy on Valentine’s Day that won’t take too much and won’t cost too much either. Stumped for ideas? Check out some of these suggestions. The great thing is they’re inexpensive, not too time consuming, and can be pulled off just in time for that day of love on Friday.
Homemade Candlelight Dinner
This is probably the most common thing to do for your man on Cupid’s Day. And even if you aren’t known for your cooking skills (like me), it could still be one of the most romantic and sentimental things that you have ever done for him and will surely leave him surprised. Now here’ the trick: If cooking isn’t one of your strong points, you have to practice making the meal before you actually serve it to him. And please get someone else to taste it other than you. Sometimes we can be biased to our own cooking, but you don’t want his meal to end up being more torture than it is a treat.
“All About Him” Day
You can plan a day full of all the things that he enjoys doing, with and without you. For instance, if he loves playing golf, plan an outing with the two of you or him and some of his friends for the near future. Or make reservations for his favorite restaurant. Make the day all about him, full of his favorite things and activities. Oh, and pampering him with a massage can surely go a long way on this special day.
Put It In A Love Letter
Before you say it’s cheesy, I will be the first to admit that it is; but nonetheless, it’s sweet, romantic, and most certainly memorable. In the day in age when text messages and emails rule the world, a good old-fashioned hand-written letter is a unique gesture. And if you’re really creative, write a poem.
Spa Day
Women love spas; and I’m sure a man won’t be opposed to receiving a massage and pedicure from a woman with gentle hands. Relaxation is relaxation and treating your man to a spa day is definitely a stress reliever. If you want to include yourself, buy a ‘his and hers’ package.
Make Him A Valentine’s Day Card
This is yet another cheesy idea that your man would still appreciate because of its thoughtfulness. It beats getting a Hallmark card that he’s used to receiving. Making a card out of construction paper is cute and unconventional. Switch it up!
Make Him A Gift Basket Or Bag With All His Favorite Things
Fill a basket with his favorite snacks, movies, and small gifts. It’s up to you how much you spend. It can consist of small items or you could even throw in one thing more expensive. This idea doesn’t have to cost a lot but the thought behind it is priceless.
Make Him A Love Playlist
Putting together a compilation of all the songs that are meaningful in your relationship can be a gift that he can keep forever. In addition to picking out the songs and creating a playlist, give him a note describing why you chose each song.
Acknowledge His Favorite Places And Things With Gift Cards
It’s easy to get him a Visa gift card, but where is the sentimental value in that? Instead, give him multiple cards of his favorite places to eat or shop (maybe $10 each). Not only will it come in handy for him,but it will show that you pay attention to some of the things he enjoys the most.
Put On A Show
This is self-explanatory; and certainly not a good idea for the extra conservative. Maybe you don’t have a pole to do dances on in your bedroom (most of us don’t); but you can still give him a few dances. Have a few glasses of wine and put on some of your favorite music to dance to, and of course make sure you’re dressed (or not dressed) for the occasion.
Give Him A Photo Shoot
This idea is not for the conservative. I’m talking s*xy photos for your man. Of course, this is better for your husband, fiancé, or long-time partner and not the guy you’ve only been dating for a month. You may have to get it done a few days in advance to make sure the photos are back in time.
Breakfast In Bed
Pressed for time or not wanting to do ‘the most’ for Valentine’s Day? Just make him a quick breakfast but serve it to him in bed. Now, if you do have more time on your hands, you can serve him breakfast and the two of you can remain in bed for a while after.
Play A Game
Spice it up for your man on Valentine’s Day by playing a game. I am not referring to Spades or board games (unless you’re thinking Twister). This doesn’t have to be the kinkiest thing you can think of. There are plenty of games that involve basic level intimacy. Just visit your local sex store and allow your imagination to run wild, if you dare.
Movie Night–But Films Of His Choice
No romantic comedies for once! If your man likes action movies, dorky comedies, or long drawn out war movies, try to take one for the team and “enjoy” the films together. Pop some popcorn, get some libations together, and keep it warm and cute in the house.
Once again, Valentine’s Day is more for the ladies, but since most of us try to act like “Sweetest Day” doesn’t exist, do something nice and simple for your man instead of waiting for him to come through and do it all on the day of love. It doesn’t have to cost you an arm and a leg, and I’m sure you will both love it. -
